Playful discipline is one thing and punishment is quite another, when the time came I made very clear to him that I intended punish him for real.
So that is precisely what he gets when he is disrespectul to me or breaks one of my rules, I have read several messages from women who "punish" their husbands by first warming them up with hand spanks. What kind of punishment is that ?
A warm up only makes the punishment more bearable, which contradicts the main goal of a real punishment, warm ups are for playful discipline when you want him to enjoy the caning to follow.
A punishment is always administered cold because I want him to feel the severity of the cane, I make him howl and dance from pain, and he knows that hard kicks in his shins with my platform sandals are the consequences of lifting his legs during a caning.
I am a very sweet and loving wife but during a punishment session I can be the strictest and coldest disciplinarienne, I can be merciless if his fault has been serious as in a disrespectful answer, smoking or procastinating, which he seems to do quite often.
Soon after our marriage I started video taping our punishment sessions because I enjoyed watching his antics under the cane, in fact we both enjoy them immensely afterwards.
I mentioned this video tapes once in someone's yahoo group and I received several requests that I posted small portions of the tapes, which I didn't because we don't want to show our faces, my husband told me that we could do it if I wore a wig and he a mask.
We even opened a yahoo group where I posted small clips of me punishing him, then one member suggested that I opened a store to sell the whole movies of the punishment sessions and even told me where I could do it easily, I told my husband about this and he said that if I opened such a store I would be getting an economical benefit out of his misbehaviour.
It looked ike a fantastic idea so I opened the store and whenever he misbehaves I subject him to a punishment session for the camera, that way we both benefit, he gets his most needed discipline and I get an economical retribution out of his misbehaviour, that's a great deal!